At the end of July we were very excited to head to Virginia to celebrate our friend Gabe’s wedding. These are our top reasons why:
- We are always excited to take a trip.
- Neither of us had spent much time in Virginia before.
- Several of our friends that we don’t get to see often enough were also making the trip.
- We love Gabe. This was the real reason we drove to Virginia. I’ve known Gabe since elementary school so we’ve been good friends for years. He’s one of my favorites. Phillip is friends with Gabe entirely without me since they had classes together in undergrad and also went to med school together.
We arrived in Virginia late Friday night, but nonetheless took some time to catch up with our friends Josh and Kristen who had come from Louisville for the weekend. They are expecting a new addition to their family this fall so we were glad they were able to make it. We ended up staying up late (well, late for us) talking and watching the end of the Olympic Opening Ceremonies and enjoyed breakfast together on Saturday morning before heading out to the wedding site to hang out and help out where needed. The wedding and reception were at Maggie’s (that’s the bride) sister’s home in “rural” Virginia. I say rural because it was really out there. Had to take a gravel road to get to the dirt road, out there. Questioned whether the Honda could make it, out there. But it was out there enough to be the perfect setting for a comfortable, casual wedding, which just suited the happy couple.
Kristen and I ended up helping Myra and Audra (Gabe’s mother and sister) prepare the table arrangements while Phillip and Josh put lights up in the tent for the reception.

Beautiful wildflowers in mason jars for the centerpieces.

Josh and Phillip were pretty proud of themselves for rigging up those lights. They mentioned it several times throughout the evening. : )

Gabe pre-wedding. Fun fact: Gabe, Josh, and Phillip all had on their Alabama shirts that morning. They were pretty proud of that, too.

No, that’s Mitchell, not Gabe. It’s a common mistake. And quite frankly, it just amazes me how much they look alike and sound alike. Anyway, there were a few small jam sessions that afternoon.

Gabe and Josh being, well, Gabe and Josh.
A few hours later it was time for the wedding. Gabe and Maggie were married in a simple ceremony surrounded by their families and friends. They even wrote their own vows which were sweet enough for tears.

The couple made their grand entrance on a tractor.






All married and stuff!


Then it was time for the reception, complete with a whole roasted pig, bluegrass band, and kegs of locally-brewed beer.

Josh and Kristen (and Dixie Dixon)

Matt and Katie – they’re next!

The band and some people I don’t know dancing.

Matt took a break to show off his buck-dancing skills. Matt, we appreciate your efforts.


The band was good, but made a horrible, horrible mistake (at least for most of this crowd) by choosing to close the evening with “Rocky Top.” I of course thought it was delightful and sang along, but the majority of the guests booed and immediately began plotting to make an encore out of “Sweet Home Alabama.” Luckily, Josh is great at taking the stage at weddings with borrowed guitars so he was happy to oblige the Bama crowd. Then, he followed it up with what is becoming a wedding tradition – “Wagon Wheel.” He performed that at our wedding with a stage full of our friends and it was one of our favorite parts of the day. We stayed until the end and had a great time. So glad we could share in the day!

Jennifer at Redheads Plus One sent out a warning not to use the regular soy sauce in this dish because it made it almost unbearably salty. Unfortunately, I’d already purchased the ingredients for this one. But, since I knew the saltiness was going to be an issue going in, I added a little extra honey and some extra wine to help cut the soy sauce.



Luckily, this dish was not too salty for us and I don’t think the substitution of the grape jam made much of a difference, so no worries if you can’t track down plum preserves either. We really enjoyed this dish and loved the layers of flavor in the sauce. And I especially enjoyed how yummy my house smelled while it was cooking! It was a great way to get some exposure to plums – a fruit we don’t typically keep around here.
At this point I was supposed to add pecans, but I don’t like pecans in my brownies, so we went nutless. We didn’t suffer for it. Mix this together to form a really thick batter/loose dough. I divided the dough in half and put it into a greased 8×8 pan. Now, I really needed a 9×9 pan for this recipe, but I couldn’t find mine (storage unit, maybe?). The correct size pan really would probably make a difference. Or maybe doubling the whole recipe and using a 9×13 or other large dish (although I’m not sure you’d even need to double the caramel for that). Anyway, bake the bottom half of the brownies and let cool while you whip up a caramel sauce.

Next you fashion the rest of the brownie dough into a pan-shaped square to be laid on top of the chocolately, caramely gooey goodness. Don’t even think about trying to dump in the dough and spread it over the top – it’s just too thick.












We ended up buying a couple of their liqueurs – Peach Cobbler and Pecan Pie – which were so delicious. Next, we went next door to the winery’s headquarters and did a tasting there. 


After an enjoyable morning on Wadmalaw, we headed back to our apartment and I started working on our Fourth of July meal. We have another round of summer fare for the July Sweet as Pie picks, and first up on my list was a 


There wasn’t anything wrong with the flavor profile of the dressing (tasted great by itself), and I loved how light it was – definitely not the heavy mayo-caked stuff you often find – but in the end, the salad was still bland. Maybe just not enough dressing for the amount of macaroni? Maybe it needed some more assertive flavors to cut through all the pasta? I think I’ll keep the pickles since they were my favorite part and the base dressing, but I’ll definitely have to jazz up the rest to get this even close to a “best ever” recipe. Maybe some chopped fresh basil? Also adding some chopped pickled okra or green beans? Adding some heat with crushed red pepper or some chopped jalapeno or some spicy mustard in the dressing? Or bacon, because bacon makes most everything better? Some combination of those? Anyway, completely edible and a cool compliment to our ribs (which, incidentally, were based on 

Mix well and pour evenly over the tops of the sandwiches.





The filling:
Next, I started forming the calzones. I rolled out each portion of dough as thinly as possible, put a spoonful of filling in the center, and folded the edges together to seal. Some of them I pressed together with my fingers, and some of them I sealed with my
After a quick egg wash, these were ready for the oven.
